By Regi Campbell

So the grandfather sees his grandson terrified of his friend’s artificial leg. He gives him his stopwatch and says “Now click it and see if you can be brave for one minute ... just one. Then we can work on two minutes; then three.”

How do we ‘be brave’? Where does courage come from? Why does it matter? To act bravely, what do I lean on, especially when the outcome of my bravery can’t be known?

Sometimes courage comes from within ... the courage of our convictions – meaning we believe in something so much we’ll stand up or even put ourselves in danger because we just have to. To stand by and not act courageously would mean we’re liars. We lean on the nobility and honor of doing the right thing even when it costs us something.

Then there’s courage from others – courage from our identity ... “You’re a Campbell.” “Airborne!” “Semper Fi.” “You’re an Eagle Scout.” We lean on our identity, our heritage, the bravery of our forbearers, the expectations of our colleagues past and present. We cannot yield to fear ... the shame of being the guy who caved would kill us. There’s courage drawn from love ... soldiers say they believe in their country and the cause, but they fight first for their buddies. They love each other ... have each other’s backs. Men don’t die for abstractions so much as for people they care about. So much so they’ll muster courage and bravery to serve and save them.

But then there’s courage from God – courage to obey. This one’s all about who the order comes from and the ‘why’ behind it. Obeying God no matter the consequences or outcome. For His glory. Out of love, respect and honor for God.

Some think letting go of fear equals courage, but I don’t. The absence of fear is not courage ... it may bring peace but may not bring progress. Courage is moving through fear. In spite of it. John Wayne said, “Courage is being scared to death ... and saddling up anyway.”

The big question is this: In our 21st century culture, what’s worth being courageous for? And who will affirm you for your bravery? 

Answer: The abundant life God offers requires extreme daily courage. And Jesus will affirm your character, your identity and your obedience as you live it.

Try this out.

Next time you think, “We should pray,” stop right then, ask permission and do it. Out loud. The next time you hear someone misrepresent something and you get that nervous lump in your throat, ask the ‘next tough question’ and expose the lie. The next time you think about talking to one of your kids about what God is doing in your life, act on it ... regardless of what he or she might think of you in the moment. When they ask for volunteers at church and you feel the urge to take the card and fill it out, do it. Take courage. Let go of your apprehension and fear.

 

Think and Pray

They say we learn more about God in one moment of obedience than in a lifetime of sacrifice. Take courage. Obey. And watch what happens in your heart as a result.

Father, help me to be brave today. As I see the people, situations and challenges in front of me today, let me see You as bigger. Give me boldness to do what would honor You and trust fully in Your wisdom and strength to see it through. I pray this in Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Regi Campbell is an experienced investor and entrepreneur by trade. But his real passion is mentoring younger men. In 2007, Regi founded Radical Mentoring to help encourage and equip mentors and churches to launch mentoring groups. He has written four books: About My Father’s BusinessMentor Like JesusWhat Radical Husbands Do, and Radical Wisdom. Regi currently lives in Atlanta, GA with his wife of 47 years, Miriam.

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